Name: Mrs. Lydia Townsend-Shirley

Date: November 4, 1966 - January 24, 2021

Biography

City of birth: Washington, DC

Mother: Mary Elizabeth Townsend

Father: Dr. John L. Townsend

Spouse: LaDarryl Shirley

Sons: Langston Garrett Shirley

Sisters: Lisa Townsend Level, Michelle Townsend Day, Tiffany Townsend

Brothers: John L. Townsend, Jr. and Carlyle Townsend

Education: Bishop McGuiness / University of Oklahoma

Occupation: Assistant Commissioner (OID) Oklahoma Insurance Dept.

Services: Earl M. Temple Memorial Chapel, 2801 N. Kelley Avenue, Oklahoma City, OK 73111

Services date and time: 11am Saturday, January 30th, 2021



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(2021-01-25 12:21pm) Willetta Hendricks wrote:
May God give you comfort in this time of your loss ❤️🕊️

(2021-01-25 1:50pm) Lisa K Scott wrote:
Through your tears and in your sorrow, know that God holds you close. Be still and know that I am God. Psalm 46:10

(2021-01-25 2:57pm) Lisa John wrote:
My deepest sympathy. Lydia will be missed so much. May God's peace comfort her family and friends. I will forever love you my friend.

(2021-01-25 5:44pm) CLARENCE R LONG wrote:
my wife and I are Praying for you.

(2021-01-25 7:16pm) Cynthia Armstrong’ wrote:
LaDarryl you are in my prayers, so sorry for your loss.

(2021-01-25 7:45pm) Pamela Madden wrote:
LaDarryl and Langston my sincere condolences. May you feel his loving presence.

(2021-01-25 8:09pm) Tiffaney Snyder wrote:
Praying for renewed hope and for the peace that passes all understanding.

(2021-01-25 8:21pm) Kim Edwards Cousin wrote:
My deepest sympathies to the family. I am so sorry for your loss. I had just reconnected with Lydia after years of wondering what ever happened to... I am so sad to learn of her passing. In college, we used to "hang". We were runnin' buddies and Alpha Angels together back in the day!. She was so much fun. So sweet, kind and just a great person to be around. I miss her again. Rest in heaven, Lydia.

(2021-01-25 11:14pm) O.T Dotson &family wrote:
The promises God made are all true.

(2021-01-26 9:15am) BRIA BALLENTINE-OID Coworker wrote:
My deepest sympathy to the family. Lydia was very kinda and sweet soul. She will be truly missed.

(2021-01-26 9:22am) Anna Farha wrote:
Lydia was one of my favorite coworkers, and she will be greatly missed. I always enjoyed talking with her and seeing her and LaDarryl out at community events. Sending your family love and comfort. ❤

(2021-01-26 9:28am) Michael & Henrietta Love wrote:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you & Langston. Praying for strength and healing.

(2021-01-26 9:34am) Adrianne Selvidge wrote:
Lydia will be so missed here at OID. I am thankful to have had the chance to know her and work with her for several years. Lydia was always quick to laugh and help whenever possible. On several occasions she solved a consumers problem so quickly they told me they were surprised and relieved. I am sorry she didn't have more time! I pray each of her family members are lifted up and covered in love and support in the days ahead!!!

(2021-01-26 9:36am) JASON JOHNSTON wrote:
We are going to miss her so much. She was an amazing woman, mentor and supervisor. We were blessed to know her and have her in our lives.

(2021-01-26 9:38am) Jeanette Pearce wrote:
An amazing, kind, caring and beautiful soul in Lydia now has an eternal home with God in Heaven. We truly miss her here at the OID! May the family be comforted with many good memories during this time of sorrow and loss.

(2021-01-26 9:40am) Christine McEntire wrote:
My deepest sympathy. Lydia will be missed.

(2021-01-26 9:40am) Rev.'s Norman & Annette Barber & Family wrote:
And the Peace of GOD which pass's all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through CHRIST JESUS. May GOD of comfort bring you the Peace that Passes all understanding and the assurance of His LOVING presence during this time. WITH HEARTFELT PRAYERS AND SYMPATHY.

(2021-01-26 9:57am) April Adkisson (Morris) wrote:
Lydia was a mentor and big sister to me for my 13 years working for her. She will be missed. She helped me through some of the hardest times in my life, and I am beyond grateful and thankful I was blessed to know her and work for her.

(2021-01-26 10:19am) CARLA JACOBS wrote:
May God comfort you today.

(2021-01-26 11:22am) Yolanda Williams wrote:
Praying for renewed hope.

(2021-01-26 11:24am) OU Black Alumni Society OKC/Norman Chapter wrote:
Our thoughts, prayers and heartfelt condolences are with our OU alumna.

(2021-01-26 2:01pm) Billy Russell wrote:
you always had big smile and you were always glad to see me,lydia no one will ever forget ,you have a spot in my heart.

(2021-01-26 3:17pm) Brad H Bryant wrote:
I had the privilege of working with Lydia during my time with the OID. She was so smart and so willing to help those who needed assistance. An enormous loss for the OID and all of us who were lucky enough to have known her. Prayers for her family.

(2021-01-26 5:17pm) Mrs. Ammon P. Jenkins wrote:
May you be comforted by God and the prayers of thers.

(2021-01-26 6:05pm) Dr. Dona Greenhoward wrote:
May God comfort you today. LaDarryl, Langston and Townsend family, Lydia was a very bright light in my life. Nothing but smiles come to my face when I think of her! I thank God for the time He allowed me to know Lydia. LaDarryl know that we are here if you need us for ANYTHING! We are praying for God to continue to keep you and strengthen you in this time of grief. Know that we love you and will continue to keep you all in our prayers.

(2021-01-27 4:12am) Wil / Ingrid Sunderland wrote:
I think God for allowing me to met this wonderful Woman. I work with Lydia for 16yrs when I worked at the O.I.D located on Stiles. She was the first person I made contact with in the building and from there she never changed what a Beautiful Soul ,Smile and Personality she had wasn’t a stranger she met that Lydia couldn’t make them smile and laugh 😆.She will be deeply missed and forever in are hearts. Angel 👼 in heaven now. Sunderland family ❤️ LaDarryl and Langston u you need anything call me please 405-923-5106,

(2021-01-27 5:50am) Carla Thomas wrote:
Words cannot express my sorrow for your loss. Lydia was a friend and a champion to me and always understanding. I am glad to have know and work for her for 10 years. She is loved.

(2021-01-27 6:43am) Donna Dorr wrote:
Lydia was my sweet friend. She was such a great example of all things good. She was beautiful inside and out. The world won’t be the same without her big beautiful smile! Love and prayers to the family.

(2021-01-27 7:57am) Rick Wagnon wrote:
Lydia was a co-worker who always had a smile and was willing to assist, or hear out a problem. We always enjoyed her reviews of her favorite foods and restaurants! She was very competent and will be greatly missed at OID. My heartfelt condolences to all of her family and friends. May God give you His peace and comfort.

(2021-01-27 8:16am) Karen Ann Vick wrote:
Praying for you and your son during the loss of your wife and mother. May God comfort and keep you both.

(2021-01-27 8:41am) Russell Valleroy wrote:
I began working at the Oklahoma Insurance Department in 2006 and for the next four years I had the absolute privilege of working with Lydia. She was always so kind and had a willingness to educate, lead and always protect the citizens of Oklahoma as best she could and as the law allowed. Words cannot begin to express my appreciation of Lydia and my sadness of her passing. My condolences to her family and may she rest in peace.

(2021-01-27 8:45am) LaTonya McKnight wrote:
I would like to express my most sincere condolences to you during this time of loss for you and your family. My boss will also be in my heart.

(2021-01-27 9:57am) Glenn Smith wrote:
Lifting the family up in prayer, She will be missed,

(2021-01-27 12:56pm) Tori Perry & Family wrote:
LaDarryl and Langston, we love you and we so loved Lydia. Trust and know that “God heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds”. Psalms 147:3

(2021-01-27 1:06pm) Espaniola Bowen wrote:
God knows your heartache and shares your grief.

(2021-01-27 2:48pm) Joy Jones wrote:
Revelation 21: 3,4 says God will wipe all tears from their eyes and there will be no more death, suffering, crying or pain, This is a promise. May you find comfort and strength through Gods words because he cares deeply. Lydia will be missed.

(2021-01-27 4:08pm) Robin Green wrote:
My heart hurts. Lydia was nothing short of amazing. I will always remember the fun times we had at the house parties. LaDarryl and Langston, you will forever be in my thoughts and prayers. Rest In Heaven Lydia

(2021-01-27 4:21pm) Nicole Bradley wrote:
LaDarryl and Langston, My deepest sympathy and you are both in my prayers. Lydia was an amazing and beautiful soul. She was my friend, mentor, and big sister. She will be missed.

(2021-01-27 6:40pm) Tori Perry & Family wrote:
LaDarryl and Langston, we love you and we so loved Lydia. Trust and know that “God heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds”. Psalms 147:3

(2021-01-27 7:04pm) Terry Spigner wrote:
My deepest sympathy.

(2021-01-28 8:07am) VERAN C RANDLE wrote:
"PEACE,HOPE AND LOVE"!!! "GOD IS GOOD ALL OF THE TIME"!!!

(2021-01-28 10:10am) Alan Matthews wrote:
My prayers are with LaDarryl and his family during this difficult time. I will pray for the Lord to bring them peace and strength.

(2021-01-28 11:22am) Sherri Miles wrote:
My deepest sympathy.

(2021-01-28 12:37pm) Annette Colbert-Black wrote:
In your moments of deepest sadness.

(2021-01-28 1:35pm) Dave & Brenda Korzun wrote:
Our thoughts and prayers are with LaDarryl, Langston and rest of family. Lydia was a beautiful person inside and out.

(2021-01-28 3:14pm) Stephanie Ware wrote:
Oh how I’m going to miss your face. Your smile that could light up any room. You were my go to person and always had my back. You always had compassion for others, especially your friends. LaDarryl and Langston my heart aches for you guys. She loved you two so much. Her friends will keep her memory alive. I miss you so much Lyd Shirley. And I’m glad that we always told each other “love you”. For 26 years you’ve been my friend, and you will remain as such. Praying God’s comfort for LaDarryl and Langston.

(2021-01-28 6:17pm) Sherrye Braggs Charlot wrote:
LaDarryl, Langston and family we send our condolences to you during this sad time. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We pray for understanding , acceptance and peace for you all. We love you . The Braggs and Charlot Family

(2021-01-28 6:27pm) Cheryl Green wrote:
Dear LaDarryl, Langston, and the entire family. Sending my condolences and praying that God will comfort you during this time. Lydia will be truly missed. May the peace of God be upon each of you.

(2021-01-28 7:49pm) Carrie Burkhart wrote:
The world just won’t be the same without Lydia. She was always up for a fun chat, and she loved to laugh. Sending love to her husband and son.

(2021-01-29 2:34am) Karen Fox wrote:
I am so saddened to hear of Lydia’s passing. To her family, please accept my sincere condolences. May her sweet spirit be watching over those she loves and may she Rest In Peace.

(2021-01-29 8:59am) Marguerite & Charles Stumbaugh wrote:
Our deepest sympathy for the Shirley and Townsend families. May you feel the comfort of God’s loving embrace. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. The Stumbaughs

(2021-01-29 9:09am) Edward Thomas wrote:
To the family of Lydia, It was a joy to know her and see that bright smile. Lydia will be in my thoughts always and sorely be miss. I pray that God will keep you and comfort you all during your time of bereavement. God bless you all.

(2021-01-29 10:00am) Ofelia Ochoa wrote:
Lydia was always smiling and eager to help. You couldn't but help wanting to be her friend. My deepest sympathy to her family and loved ones. She will be sorely missed.

(2021-01-29 10:16am) Ione Graham wrote:
My deepest sympathy.

(2021-01-29 12:46pm) Marilyn Long wrote:
You are in my ptsyetd

(2021-01-29 4:36pm) Tammy Burdine Rivers wrote:
God bless you and your family richly.

(2021-01-29 7:08pm) Dora Salud wrote:
I met the beautiful Lydia while working at the OID over 20 years ago, we quickly became friends and even though i moved 1K miles away, we managed to KIT and remain friends. She was always a pleasure to talk to and is truly missed. I forever will remember her fabulous smile! I am heartbroken from this news and my deepest sympathy goes out to you LaDarryl, Langston & Family. I pray that God will comfort your hearts and and may you find peace. I know that Lydia loved and cherished you. - The Salud & Sims Family

(2021-01-29 9:09pm) Diane Robbs wrote:
Even though I knew Lydia for a short time, I consider her a good friend. She was a great boss. She will be missed.

(2021-01-29 9:22pm) Aaron Juniper wrote:
Rest in Heaven Lydia. I will always remember your smile. I pray that your family finds comfort in these trying and unprecedented times.

(2021-01-30 5:46am) Sherry Marczewski wrote:
Lydia was such a kind and caring person to work with. What a blessing it has been to know such a completely beautiful person. I pray for the family to find peace in your sorrow.

(2021-01-30 8:24am) Margie Combs-Summers wrote:
My condolences to the family. Praying for you'll.

(2021-01-30 8:54am) Karen Carter wrote:
My condolences to the family. I will continue to pray for you.

(2021-01-30 9:02am) Kimberly Jones wrote:
You are in my prayers.

(2021-01-30 9:20am) Carol Martin wrote:
May God comfort you today and always my friend.

(2021-01-30 9:32am) Leslie Simmons-long wrote:
May God comfort you today.

(2021-01-30 9:52am) Morgan Davis wrote:
You are in my prayers.

(2021-01-30 9:59am) Willie Spencer wrote:
May God comfort you today.

(2021-01-30 10:00am) Eli Snowbarger wrote:
My deepest sympathy.

(2021-01-30 10:06am) Marc D. Young wrote:
My deepest sympathy. Lydia, you were such a force at OID. You knew your stuff better than any and cared about those who were seeking assistance from the Department. I am praying for you and your family.

(2021-01-30 10:13am) Cassandra D Sheets wrote:
God knows your heartache and shares your grief.

(2021-01-30 10:25am) Marc D. Young wrote:
My deepest sympathy. Lydia, you were such a force at OID. You knew your stuff better than any and cared about those who were seeking assistance from the Department. I am praying for you and your family.

(2021-01-30 10:32am) Marc D. Young wrote:
My deepest sympathy. Lydia, you were such a force at OID. You knew your stuff better than any and cared about those who were seeking assistance from the Department. I am praying for you and your family.

(2021-01-30 11:25am) Eli Snowbarger wrote:
My deepest sympathy.

(2021-01-30 11:27am) Danny Chambers wrote:
As I was attending Lydia's service online, I could see how much she was loved by her family and friends. Lydia will be truly missed by those of us at OID. She was a great leader. I always appreciated her sense of humor and her caring nature. My prayers for strength for her family.

(2021-01-30 11:46am) Barron Brown wrote:
I worked with Lydia for 7 years at the OID. She was a great person & always very kind. My heart goes out to her family. May she Rest In Peace.

(2021-01-30 12:15pm) Eva Scott wrote:
God bless you and your family richly. She was a wonderful woman:

(2021-01-30 12:27pm) Sharon & Chris Turner wrote:
Wishing you strength and peace now and all the days ahead. We are very sorry for your loss! The service was beautiful!

(2021-01-30 12:38pm) Geneva Johnson wrote:
my deepest condolences to my family

(2021-01-30 1:13pm) Kori Cogburn wrote:
My sincerest condolences to the Shirley and Townsend families.

(2021-01-30 1:29pm) Shirley Butler wrote:
My deepest sympathy.

(2021-01-30 1:47pm) Vivian Kincston wrote:
My deepest sympathy.

(2021-01-30 1:47pm) Shirley Butler wrote:
Lydia will truly be missed. She was such a sweet and kind person. I will miss our conversations. We never missed a chance to talk basketball with one another. My sincerest condolences to LaDarryl, Langston and the rest of her family.

(2021-01-30 3:14pm) Suma Mathew wrote:
My deepest sympathy.

(2021-01-31 10:28am) Deanna wrote:
I watched the service live due to the pandemic and would have shared this with everyone to celebrate Lydia. I had a bad habit of saying “surely” all the time, and Lydia never missed the opportunity to say “Don’t call me Shirley!” We worked together for 16 years at the OID and we’re fellow Scorpios. But, she was much nicer and as Donna Dorr mentioned yesterday, she was always the better person when it came to gossiping or being kind. I’ll always remember her giggle and how much she loved her family. Please know I am there per our discussion and I’m thinking of you and sending positive thoughts and strength during this sad time.

(2021-02-01 2:32pm) Tori Perry & Family wrote:
LaDarryl and Langston, we love you and we so loved Lydia. Trust and know that “God heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds”. Psalms 147:3

(2021-02-04 6:38pm) LaDonna Battle-Leverett wrote:
Lydia, will forever missed God knows your heartache and shares your grief .

(2021-03-04 3:53am) Wil / Ingrid Sunderland wrote:
I think God for allowing me to met this wonderful Woman. I work with Lydia for 16yrs when I worked at the O.I.D located on Stiles. She was the first person I made contact with in the building and from there she never changed what a Beautiful Soul ,Smile and Personality she had wasn’t a stranger she met that Lydia couldn’t make them smile and laugh 😆.She will be deeply missed and forever in are hearts. Angel 👼 in heaven now. Sunderland family ❤️ LaDarryl and Langston u you need anything call me please 405-923-5106,

(2021-03-29 11:52pm) Wil / Ingrid Sunderland wrote:
I think God for allowing me to met this wonderful Woman. I work with Lydia for 16yrs when I worked at the O.I.D located on Stiles. She was the first person I made contact with in the building and from there she never changed what a Beautiful Soul ,Smile and Personality she had wasn’t a stranger she met that Lydia couldn’t make them smile and laugh 😆.She will be deeply missed and forever in are hearts. Angel 👼 in heaven now. Sunderland family ❤️ LaDarryl and Langston u you need anything call me please 405-923-5106,

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